kinky

ok these kinky questions is for men i guess. it's about fingering and licking a pussy.
first why do you like to finger/lick your girl? and how does it feel?
second how much time you take to finger her?
lets talk frankly ^_^

question

i'm not sure how to say this but i need your help.
my boss who used to be my ex boyfirend is really pervert, everytime i do terrible mistakes at work he calls me in his office and lock the door.
he order me to bend over the table and let him finger my vagina for more than 10 mins, he do nothing but fingering. he calls it a punishment for what i did.
i feel humiliated ,  the sound of his finger rubbing my wet vagina is soo embarrasing not to mention his dirty comments .  
but at the same time i really like how he force me to take his fingers while saying i deserve it. 
my question is if you were in my position will you make him stop or let him punish you ?
thanks

Pu$$y Problems?

Has anyone else's partnet made them feel so self concious about recieving oral sex that they refuse to recieve it? My fiance SAYS he loves giving oral sex, but every time we do it he gives me crap about how I "smell" nomatter how I wash in the shower, or freshen up. It's seemed such a hassle and embarassment that I just don't let him do it anymore. And it's always been something i've been self concious about, he's just made it worse. Now that we want to add another girl for a threesome, and I just am SUPER excited about it, since i'm bi and it's all the female attention I can have, i'm worried about it now. What can I do?