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Jul. 16th, 2009 @ 10:15 pm Pu$$y Problems?
Has anyone else's partnet made them feel so self concious about recieving oral sex that they refuse to recieve it? My fiance SAYS he loves giving oral sex, but every time we do it he gives me crap about how I "smell" nomatter how I wash in the shower, or freshen up. It's seemed such a hassle and embarassment that I just don't let him do it anymore. And it's always been something i've been self concious about, he's just made it worse. Now that we want to add another girl for a threesome, and I just am SUPER excited about it, since i'm bi and it's all the female attention I can have, i'm worried about it now. What can I do?
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opaloctober:
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From:shadowrogue
Date:July 17th, 2009 03:18 am (UTC)
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sounds like HE is the one with the problem. not you.
I'd be willing to bet that you smell just fine.
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From:opaloctober
Date:July 17th, 2009 03:39 am (UTC)
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I can admit, that i've had two girlfriends, and they didn't smell as strongly as I did, our smells wern't that different...
From:justaguy336
Date:July 17th, 2009 03:57 am (UTC)
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if you're cleaning yourself than its obviously something on his end, it may just be that you have a stronger scent and he's sensitive to it, he shouldnt make comments tho and he should just do it, especially if you give him head, not like guys junk smell that great, stuffed inside pants all day, i for one love going down on chicks and would eat you for hours and revel in it
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From:opaloctober
Date:July 17th, 2009 04:00 am (UTC)
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Unless he's had a particularly sweaty day, (in which case i'll either shower him or tell him to go clean up or shower) I love giving him oral sex, I enjoy it, and there's usually no smell to me...sometimes, rarely there is a slight smell, but I hardly ever complain...
From:justaguy336
Date:July 19th, 2009 10:42 pm (UTC)
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well still if you're giving him head he should return the favor with no complaints
From:minosse
Date:July 17th, 2009 06:18 am (UTC)
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Some smell problems can sort out because of some particular meals or because of some kind of birth-control pills.
You can check rapidly if you are in this case or not.
From:harlequin83
Date:July 17th, 2009 08:47 am (UTC)
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kick his lame ass to the curb.

to be frank, i'd probably drink my girlfriend's pee and put a bowl up smarties up my butt if she was willing to 3some with me. the fuck should BE so lucky...
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From:opaloctober
Date:July 17th, 2009 01:42 pm (UTC)
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LOL
From:harlequin83
Date:July 18th, 2009 07:12 am (UTC)
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i'm not kidding. it's terrible that he feels he needs to degrade you and be as offensive as he is. you could let him know that well over 99% of men would shut up and mind their own business if they were given the offer that you gave.

p.s. does your ob-gyn say you smell funny? does your family doctor? do your panties smell funny? i think not. he's probably just insecure, or he's really grossed out by pussy in general, in which case, tell him to man up, shut up and deal with it.
From:ezekielapo
Date:July 17th, 2009 01:58 pm (UTC)
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HE'S AN IDIOT!
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From:notaboyscout
Date:July 17th, 2009 06:28 pm (UTC)
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Sounds like he has an issue, not you.
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From:inuguardian1984
Date:July 18th, 2009 10:43 pm (UTC)
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It's a shame that he says he loves giving but then turns around and does that shit. If he loves it as he says he does, then he should appreciate everything there is about oral. Scents, sounds, tastes....Everything. The question I have for you is, does he give you oral before or after insertion? I don't know about other women, but I know that I don't smell the best after my husband's been inside me. His own male aroma kinda permeates the air. If you are doing all that you can, then you are all well and good. You do what you can, and he still complains, then take a step back and see where the factor is. Be is his own scent that's turning him off, if you're using toys or whatever. A lot of factors could be contributing to is. Just gotta find the right one.
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From:opaloctober
Date:July 18th, 2009 11:09 pm (UTC)
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I would never let him do that after hes been inside me thats gross.
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From:inuguardian1984
Date:July 19th, 2009 02:55 am (UTC)
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To each his own. It's the same concept as sucking him off after he's been inside of you, if you do such a thing. It's a personal preference. Some guys get off on that kind of thing. Sorry if I offended you, but just trying to give you some options to look at to help solve your problem. If you are going to get defensive when someone offers honest advice, maybe you shouldn't be posting and letting others know about your problems.
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From:anais_pf
Date:February 21st, 2010 08:37 pm (UTC)
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Matter of opinion. I think it's HOT.
From:ooohhhhhhhhh
Date:February 4th, 2010 02:03 pm (UTC)

eat it before and after

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I have to agree. sucking a womans pussy after is no different than her sucking his cock after. i love having a woman in my mouth !!! but i have to be fair - i also am bi-sexual so i love having a man in my mouth too !!!

but, to the smell. it sounds like you are doing what you can to fix the problem. every person is different in their body chemestry. i know some guys can put deoderant on in the morning and they're fine. me ??? i have to use it twice a day. the pussy ??? i had a g/f who could go the whole week without washing her pussy if we didn't have sex, and she might be a little strong. but i had another g/f who had to wash (douche) every day !!! and if she didn't....wow !!!!!! and then there is his own sences. i love chicken and i love the smell of chicken ...but.... i hate the smell of chicken on my hands ??? i have to wash my hands as soon as i eat chicken or the smell makes me sick ???

but having another woman !!! he is so lucky it's sick !!! even if she said all you can do is watch and please yourself ..... i would be insane with the pleasure of it. if i could watch my g/f with another woman (oh!my!!god!!!) i would probobly break my own cock off !!!!
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From:anais_pf
Date:February 21st, 2010 08:39 pm (UTC)

Re: eat it before and after

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It's probably too late for this to do any good, but those daily douches are probably what caused your one girlfriend's strong odor. Douches are evil.